Outside My Window

It's been a fun and beautiful week. This is what I see out of my window as we sit down to eat breakfast every morning. Ridiculously beautiful. I've always thought these trees were magnificent, and now I have an enormous one in my front yard. I'm thankful for spring, flowers, and green.

We had some friends over to play this week. We went over to the same friends house and had dinner. We met some other friends at the playground. We learned about kangaroos. We read some great books. We colored and played games. I'm thankful for the fun and freedom in homeschooling. I'm thankful we can learn together.

My aunt came over and stayed with the kids so I could go to the grocery store by myself. She and Elle did a little bean alphabet work. I am very thankful for her and the way she loves us. {They only did the letters we've covered in school, so that's why some are missing!}

We did a little shopping for spring clothes. We rode the carousel at the mall. Elle bought chocolate milk all by herself at the Chick-fil-A counter. She was so proud. I'm thankful we have the means to do these things and enjoy them.

We listened to the birds sing their sweet melodies. We watched the squirrels scamper along the fence. Grady and I practiced passing the basketball. Elle rode her bike around the backyard. Steven's parents came and spent the day with us. I'm thankful for creation and the senses to enjoy it. I'm thankful for family that loves us and drives to spend time with us.

We also have enjoyed our church's missions conference over the course of the weekend. The one and only Steve Brown is the keynote speaker. Those of you who are familiar with him know how wonderfully the Lord uses him. And the missionaries here. God stirs my heart and my emotions. I think about Kazakhstan. I'm so, so, so thankful for our time there. I hope there will be more "going" in our future. I'm thankful for people who are willing to go. Not only to the hard places but also to their next door neighbors. I'm thankful God wants to use us even though He doesn't need us. I'm thankful for encouragement from God's people. I'm thankful to be reminded that the world is so much bigger than me. I am looking forward to tomorrow.

The ATL

We had a great time in Atlanta, and only missed out on one of the planned activities {and possibly the most important!} --meeting my 6 week old niece. I plan to get back up there soon though, since I bought a zoo membership. Yes, I live in Dothan but bought a zoo membership to the Atlanta zoo. Here's the thing: it was going to cost $102 for the five of us to go for the day or I could get a year membership for $99. And that includes 2 adults and 4 children. I'm sure I'll go to Atlanta again at least once within the year. Even if I don't, I saved $3 off our admission price.

Grady felt right at home in the arms of this mother gorilla.

Peter Pan was awesome and the kids loved it! Photography wasn't allowed inside, so I didn't get any pictures except for us walking back to our hotel after the show. Very cool venue and very cool production. I love experiencing creative works of art, imagination, story-telling, engineering, drama, etc. It is so thrilling to see people do what they love and be great at it. I'll confess when they did the first flying scene when Peter, Tinkerbell, and the Darling kids are off to Neverland, I got a bit teary eyed.

Steven and Reese had a good time together. He just called {he's on his way to Atlanta} and was asking about Reese. He said he missed him. They seriously bonded. I hear there were a lot of cookies involved. Maybe that's why Reese was missing Daddy too!

Crazy comments & clothes lines

I might need to enable comment moderation on the old blog.
Yesterday, I received this comment:

"Yeast Infection" has left a new comment on your post "Happy Day of Love":

As this type of the infection are getting very common and that also occurring in the children's. Therefore they must take proper precautions for the care of the children.

I laughed out loud.

I don't think English is "Yeast Infection's" first language.

But I do appreciate him or her looking out for the children.

I have a clothes line in the backyard. I used it today. It reminded me of my grandmother's house. I tried to pin them just like I remember her doing.The line is sort of under a tree. There are a lot of birds that come and go in the tree. You can see the potential problems with this. But for today, it worked.

Elle, Grady and I are going to Atlanta tomorrow for a couple days. We get to go to Ikea, stay at Embassy Suites, possibly go to the zoo, see Peter Pan, and meet our newest family member, Andi, on the way home Monday. Steven and Reese are having some male bonding time here. Happy weekend!

Enjoying the Weather

We've spent much of the past two days outside. Grady completed some much needed car repairs.

Elle learned how to "start" her bike with no training wheels. She starts and rides in a straight line. We are working on the turning part.

Reese dumped all the sidewalk chalk out and used the box as a hat.

Boxes are so much fun. Hours and hours of fun.

And trees. Oh my! Trees are fun.

And there is a bit of spring springing in our backyard.

Happy Day of Love

"So often these days we hide within the walls of large churches. We come in as strangers and we leave the same way. We smile at one another, give the impression that we are the one family that has it all together, and go home to our private wars. Life was not meant to be that cold. It is better to be known with all our hypocrisy and failings." -Sheila Walsh

I like being open and honest. I'm not afraid to answer a personal question. I'm certainly not afraid to confess my weaknesses and short-comings. Because I know the One who loves me in spite of all those things. The Son who helps me forgive myself and others. The Maker who makes me a better person. The Friend who enables me to love and be a friend to others. The Father who teaches me how to be a wonderful parent. Life is sometimes hard and I am not perfect. I felt like writing about some of that recently instead of only putting the "best" things on here. So please know that I am certainly better than ok. I was just venting and releasing some real feelings and thoughts and struggles. I think God wants us to be more open and honest with each other than we are. It's hard to be vulnerable because we think we have to be perfect. Once you realize you're not and you won't be this side of heaven, that's when real community starts to happen. When I cease to write, or stop answering my phone, or wear sweatpants every day, then you can worry:).

"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God." -I John 4:7

**And now to the scrapbook portion of the blog:

I took Elle and Grady to the doctor this afternoon. Elle developed a "secondary infection" in her lungs so we've got round two of antibiotics and the trusty inhaler every 3-4 hours. Grady had not been seen by a doctor yet, and I wanted to make sure there wasn't anything major going on with him. But this is week 5 of sickness for all three kids. It just won't go away. They literally hack and cough constantly. I'm beginning to think Dothan doesn't like us...

Today was a Good Day

Lest my few readers think I am in a total depression {I'm not}, here are some highlights from today:

• Leisurely Saturday morning with my family complete with Busytown cartoons and a shower for me.
• Play time with the family in the backyard complete with me dominating Steven in basketball. {I'm sure he will disagree. Sometimes the truth hurts.}
• Four hours, without my family, out on the town with an awesome friend complete with lunch, bargain shopping and girl scout cookies. {I've already eaten them all. Just two boxes. And I did share some.}
• A late afternoon trip with the family to a farm complete with a Clydesdale horse-drawn wagon ride.
• I'm going to end this great day with a little reading from my Valentine's Day present from my mom, The Mysterious Benedict Society and the Perilous Journey.

And last, not from today, but just because it's something that should be documented: we actually had a positive balance on our credit card bill this month. I payed off the previous bill and then we got a credit from our old cable service and our balance was ($11.51). My dad would be so proud.

Good night to all!

"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." -Romans 12:12

I came across this verse when I was reading this morning, and I thought it was very appropriate for these past few weeks. While I haven't been feeling very joyful, I have a hope that I can always find joy in, no matter my circumstances. If our "afflictions" last 3 1/2 more weeks, months, or years, the Lord wants me to be patient. Even if my prayers aren't being answered the way I want them to, I'm to be faithful in prayer. Keep talking to Him. Keep trusting Him. Keep believing Him.

Elle coughed so hard in the car today, she threw up. It was almost as nasty as the month-old Subway remains I found squished down in the pocket of the back seat.

I'm still somewhat in a "valley". My roller coaster is stuck at the bottom and the chain can't seem to pull it up the hill. I can't seem to get my fuse to be any longer. But by the Lord's grace, I will be joyful, patient and faithful. He's the same in the valley or the mountaintop. Now if I can just cling to that...

{Can you tell we've been learning about elephants this week?}

The Angry Voice

I'll be honest. I'm a little tired. My attitude is poor. There's not been a whole lot of joy radiating from my face. But I'm trying to hang in there. I've felt really burdened by some personal things in addition to our 3 1/2 week sickness stint and I think the Lord doesn't want to work them out the way I am asking Him to. Not my will, but yours. Right? Right.

These kids keep me laughing even when they make me want to pull my hair out. Elle told me that for her birthday she wanted her "eyelids painted." I asked her who had their eyelids painted {because I don't wear eyeshadow}, and she said nobody. She also wants a pocket knife and a wallet. Her birthday is 3 1/2 months away, but she's already planning.

Grady also told me that the reason he loves me is because I have a funny angry voice that goes like this, "Aaaaaaagggghhhhhhh!!" This would be in reference to the loud, heavy, frustrated sighs I give off every now and then to alleviate some stress. At least he loves it. And thinks it's funny.

A worthy cause

If you've been reading for any time, then you might remember me mentioning the Byrne triplets {They are my sister's uncle, aunt and cousins}. They recently celebrated their 2nd birthday. Olivia, George and Samuel have come a very, very long way. I never thought much about the March of Dimes, but a little perspective makes all the difference. Now that I know a family who was impacted and helped tremendously by this organization, I want to help. They are gearing up for their local March of Dimes walk, and the Byrne family is the Ambassador family this year. Click on the link to read her post and watch their video. Grap a tissue first. Then get your wallet:).

The Band's Forming

Steven found someone else to play with. He's quite possibly as good as me, if not better. Steven might have a fiddle in Elle's hands before too long. Not sure yet what Reese will contribute.

I spoke too soon about the sickness. I think the boys must have gotten a new viral cold during the week that the antibiotics won't touch. I am ready for some health for these kids. I know there are lots of parents out there who wish all they were doing was wiping snotty noses and holding cranky, coughy babies, and I am certainly not complaining. It could always be worse. But I'm sure they can emphathize with feeling like there's nothing you can do to make them feel better. And I just want them to feel better.

More Painting & Oral Hygiene

This is what Reese likes to do while I make dinner. He gets every plastic cup, bowl, plate, and utensil out of the cabinets and tries to set them up on the 12 inches of counter space I have to work with. When he runs out of space {which is usually about 2 bowls in}, he just places them strategically around the floor. He's such a big help:).

Once my helper went to bed, Elle and Grady painted some birdhouses. Earlier in the week, we played the "obedience game" and the birdhouses were their rewards. The game went like this: I hid the houses in a very secret location {the storage shed}, then I gave them a set of specific instructions they had to follow in order to find their reward. If they didn't listen and obey the instructions as they were given, then there would be no reward! We can't wait to get some seed this weekend and hang them up. We already have tons of birds around our yard and trees, but I think they will love the new additions!

Grady really loves painting. So does Elle. But I didn't know this about Grady until recently.


Steven was out of town last night. As I got ready for bed, I noticed I had no toothpaste. Fortunately {for him!}, I bought a new tube earlier in the day. But I texted him and he was very remorseful:

"Oh. Didn't even think about it. Sorry!"

Then I got one right after that said:

"Unbelievable. I have two tubes of toothpaste and no toothbrush."

February Goals

I thought I'd do an experiment where I tried to write everyday for the month of February. So far, I've missed one day and it's the second. Goal unrealistic. New goal is to write every other day. Goal possibly attainable. My other February goal is to routinely study the Bible every morning. I have not done this, routinely, since Elle was born. I am looking forward to the benefits of this routine. I have homeschool to thank for reminding me of the need for this as we learned last week that "God's word helps me grow."

Everybody is finally feeling better after my new favorite pediatrician prescribed an antibiotic for all 3 kids on Monday. I took Elle in for what I thought was a sinus infection. I am definitley not an antibiotic-seeker by any means, but if they are still sick after 10 days with no sign of improvement, it's more than a cold. And they need a little something to help them get well. Elle is significantly better {it was a sinus infection}, and the boys are too.

I got gas 3 weeks ago and have gone 200 miles. Things in Dothan are more condensed than Birmingham. Or maybe it was because I lived in Calera and usually drove at least 14 miles one way to get to anything. Now I drive on average 1.5 miles to get anywhere.

Grady keeps telling me I'm making him angry. This is usually after I've asked him to do something, or clean up, or am reminding him of some expected behavior that is not being exhibited. I just keep telling him I'm sorry and maybe he should think about all the things I do that make him happy.